Communication: The Cornerstone of Leadership Success

Communication is a Cornerstone

In leadership, effective communication is a cornerstone for success. Whether you’re leading a small team or a large organization, your ability to convey ideas, expectations, and feedback clearly and constructively can make all the difference. One of the most crucial aspects of effective communication is the ability to deal with difficult people and challenging situations. Here’s how focusing on the issue at hand, rather than the person, can lead to more productive and respectful outcomes.

Understanding Behaviour Over Personality

When faced with difficult people, it’s easy to fall into the trap of making it personal. However, effective leaders know that targeting someone’s character or personality rarely leads to positive outcomes. Instead, addressing the specific behaviour or situation that is problematic helps keep the conversation objective and constructive.

Why Focus on Behaviour?

1. Objectivity: Behaviour is observable and measurable, making it easier to discuss without bias. For example, instead of saying “You’re always late,” which can be seen as a personal attack, say “I’ve noticed that you’ve been arriving after our scheduled start time for the past week.”

2. Solution-Oriented: By focusing on specific actions or behaviours, leaders can identify clear steps towards improvement. This approach shifts the conversation from blame to problem-solving. For instance, “What changes can we make to ensure you can arrive on time?” opens the door to discussing potential solutions.

3. Respect and Empathy: Addressing behaviour rather than personality respects the individual’s dignity and promotes empathy. It acknowledges that everyone has the capacity for change and growth. Phrasing like, “I understand that mornings can be challenging. How can we better support you?” demonstrates empathy and a willingness to help.

Effective Communication Techniques

1. Active Listening: Truly listening to understand, rather than to respond, is vital. This means paying attention to the speaker’s words, tone, and body language, and reflecting back what you’ve heard to ensure understanding. Statements like “It sounds like you’re feeling overwhelmed. Is that right?” can validate the other person’s feelings and foster a more open dialogue.

2. Clear and Concise Messaging: Ambiguity can lead to misunderstandings and frustration. Ensure your messages are clear and concise, leaving little room for misinterpretation. For example, “Please submit your report by 3 PM on Friday,” is clear and leaves no room for confusion.

3. Non-Verbal Communication: Your body language, facial expressions, and tone of voice all play a significant role in how your message is received. Consistency between your verbal and non-verbal communication reinforces your message and builds trust.

Lessons from “Made to Stick”

In their book “Made to Stick”, Chip and Dan Heath outline six principles that make ideas stick: Simplicity, Unexpectedness, Concreteness, Credibility, Emotions, and Stories (SUCCESs). These principles can significantly enhance your communication effectiveness:

1. Simplicity: Strip your message to its core, making it easy to understand and remember. This means focusing on the essential points without overloading with information. A simple, clear message like “Our priority is meeting deadlines” can be more impactful than a lengthy explanation.

2. Unexpectedness: Capture attention by breaking patterns. Present information in a way that surprises and engages your audience. For example, start a meeting with an unexpected fact or question that relates to the topic at hand, piquing curiosity.

3. Concreteness: Use specific examples and clear language to make your message tangible. Instead of saying, “Improve customer service,” say, “Greet every customer with a smile and address them by name.”

4. Credibility: Build trust by providing evidence and backing up your claims. Share statistics, testimonials, or personal experiences that support your message. For instance, “Our data shows a 20% increase in productivity when teams receive regular feedback.”

5. Emotions: Make people care by appealing to their emotions. Connect on a personal level by sharing stories or scenarios that resonate with their experiences. For example, “Imagine how a customer feels when they’re greeted warmly and their needs are met promptly.”

6. Stories: Narratives are powerful tools for communication. They help illustrate points and make messages memorable. Share success stories, challenges, and lessons learned to reinforce your message. A story about a team member who overcame obstacles to achieve success can inspire and motivate others.

The Benefits of Effective Communication

When leaders communicate effectively, they create a culture of transparency, trust, and mutual respect. This leads to:

  • Improved Morale: Team members feel valued and understood, boosting their overall morale and job satisfaction.
  • Enhanced Collaboration: Clear communication facilitates better teamwork and collaboration, as everyone understands their roles and expectations.
  • Greater Productivity: With fewer misunderstandings and conflicts, teams can focus on achieving their goals more efficiently.
  • Stronger Relationships: Trust and respect, fostered through effective communication, lead to stronger relationships within the team and with external stakeholders.

Effective communication is more than just a skill—it’s a critical component of successful leadership. By focusing on behaviours rather than personalities, actively listening, being clear and concise, and incorporating the principles from “Made to Stick”, leaders can navigate difficult situations with grace and foster a positive, productive work environment. Remember, the way you communicate can either build bridges or create barriers.

Choose to build bridges, and you’ll pave the way for leadership success.


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Sofia Arisheh

Sofia Arisheh is a certified HR strategist, leader, and educator with extensive experience in multiple sectors. She specializes in aligning HR strategy with business strategy, focusing on employee-centric approaches to drive better business results.

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